First visit to the park

Guess who visited the park for the first time ever!! She loved it. She didn't really care for the sing or slide...she really just liked watching the other kids.

all better

I just wanted to let everyone know that Diya is back to her old self again. Knock on wood, all her sickness is gone. Only thing that hurts are her teeth. We are giving her some ayurvedic teething medication. Premal’s kaka is a big believer in the stuff and sent it with Neha. It’s a small pill that Diya takes once a day. Since its all natural I didn’t mind trying it out. I have to say that it seems to help. On days we forget to give it to her that following night she seems to have more trouble sleeping soundly. On top of that Diya loves chewing on the small tablet which easily breaks with her gums and tastes lil sweet.

Past weekend we saw some really cute summer clothes. So we got some for Diya and tried them on when we got home. As you can see this fits Diya perfectly now and no way will it last ‘till summer arrives. She was looking too cute… couldn’t resist not taking a photo or 2 (or 2 dozen). I’m really looking forward to summer. She’ll be old enough to sit in those baby swings at the park. We’ll get those mini pools that she can sit and play in…will get a cute little swimsuit...ohhh…I can’t wait.

and she's off...

Many people have been asking how Diya is doing so here is an update. She is doing better. She no longer has diarrhea or constipation or a fever. But the ear infection seems to be causing her some pain. It’s either the ears or her teeth (or both). She’s been a little fussy during the day and wakes up so many times in the night. Last night she woke up at midnight, 1:30, 2:30, and 5:30. This was actually an improvement from the night before when she woke up every, single hour. Each time she starts screaming within moments of waking up. Usually, she can fall back to sleep on her own, but lately she has to be held while you walk around. When you think she’s finally sleeping… slowly put her back in the crib. But it’s this last step that usually wakes her up again and you have to start all over again. Getting her back to sleep takes 30-45mins these days. Premal and I (and even Neha last night) have been taking turns putting her back to sleep. Hopefully each passing night will get better. Keep your fingers crossed.

So, while all this has been happening there was something amazing that happened yesterday evening…a huge milestone was achieved by Diya. She learned to crawl!! Luckily we were all there to witness it. It was really exciting for her and for us. Soon as she figured it out you could tell her face was saying “Wow, this is awesome!!” We can already see how we are going to have to be more careful with her now. She was all over the living room yesterday...no fear of coffee tables or fireplaces or ottomans…nothing was stopping her. Here is the video from moments after her first crawl.


Diya learns to crawl! from Diya Shah on Vimeo.

bad to worse

So, Friday I get home from work and Diya had pooped only once all day. Finally…relief...we thought. She didn’t go rest of the evening then Saturday morning she goes again, but it’s very little and it’s really hard. Great. She was now constipated. How does she go from one extreme to the next…no idea. Doctor said it’s pretty common nothing to worry about. So we start giving her the regular diet. Saturday night she felt little warm so we took her temp and sure enough she had a fever. We gave her Tylenol. Sunday morning she still had fever, but seemed better. Sunday evening she had a nice, big, normal poop…finally! Monday morning she still had a temperature. Ended up taking her to the doctor. She has ear infection in both ears. Great. She’ll be on antibiotics for next 10 days. Premal was most upset that for the first time she has actually lost weight. By now she should’ve been over 18lbs, but she’s only 17lbs 3oz. I'm sure she will make up for it soon.

no improvements yet...

It's been a whole day and Diya's diarrhea has not gotten any better. Infact it seems to be worse. Yesterday, she have even more poops and even more leaks from her diaper. She woke up at 5am and I went to check on her...I felt her belly and it was wet. I picked her up and her whole back and side were wet. I had to change her and wash her from chest down. I took her under the sink and just washed whatever I could. Of course by this time she is crying up a storm. I don't blame her...she was expecting me to just help back to sleep. She didn't want to be stripped down naked and be washed and changed while she was half asleep. Poor thing...I felt so bad, but it had to be done. Premal and Neha obviously woke up cause of all the crying and helped with the whole process.


She still doesn't have a fever or is vomiting so that is a little relief. Today we are going to try not giving her any milk and try some other things people have advised us on. If she doesn't seem better by tomorrow we'll probably visit her doctor.


On a slightly lighter note...these photos are some more of her random sleeping positions(before she got ill).

poor baby...

Yesterday I got home from work and Diya was playing in her bouncy chair. She was her usual self...good mood and happy to see me. I picked her up and in few minutes I felt some wetness near her diaper. She had pooped and leaked through her diaper. Four or five months ago this wouldn't have alarmed me, but yesterday it did. I soon learned that all day she had been pooping more than usual and having very loose bowel movements. Poor thing has diarrhea.

I called the doctor and she said as long as she doesn't have fever and isn't vomitting no need to worry. Her guess is that it is probably a viral infection due to her cold and cough. I find this little hard to believe because she's had this cold and cough on and off for a month and she didn't get diarrhea before...so why all of the sudden? I was expecting her to say it was cause of her teething. She has at least one new tooth coming in and her gums have gotten sooo swollen. The inside of her mouth looks so different from just a month ago. Food poisoning was another thought. She puts everything in her mouth so she might have just picked up a dirty toy or something.

Whatever the cause doctor said give her fruits and no fruits that start with 'p' like pears, peaches or prunes. She suggested bananas, apples, and sweet potatoes for veggies. Luckily Diya likes these a lot. But there must be something else we can give her. Anyone has any ideas please let me know even if the remedy isn't specifically for babies.

Knock on wood that this hasn't caused her to be extra cranky or fussy. She's just her usual happy self. Hopefully she will get over this fast.

Diya springs into her 8th month

Spring begins on Diya’s 8 month birthday. I was recently looking at her birth pictures and I can’t believe how little she was. I don’t realize how much she’s grown until I look at old photos or videos. People have been saying that before you know it she will be a teenager and I’ll wonder where the time went. Not sure about being a teen, but the ‘baby days’ seem to be flying by.

In the last month Diya has gotten very clever. She knows how to give a fake smile to butter me up. If she wants to be held she will flash that fake smile. She knows that when she drops a toy from her high chair mommy(or anyone sitting close by) is always there to get it back for her. She knows how to fake cry too. If there is a delay in getting the toy back she knows that by giving that fake cry she can get it faster.

She also knows how to pick up a cheerio with her fingers and put it in her mouth. Sometimes when the grip isn’t right she will switch the cheerio from one hand to the other. It takes her few minutes per cheerio, but it keeps her busy while we have dinner.

She recognizes her milk bottle and cries for it as soon as it’s in her site. If I have the bottle in my hand and her in the same arm she bends down and starts licking the cap. Even when she sees the bottle by accident and there is no milk in it she wants it.

She can also crawl backwards now. When she’s on her belly she will push with her hands and move her body back. On the carpet its a little tough cause there is more friction, in the crib she slides easily. But she’s little lazy and hates being on her belly for too long so I have a feeling she’ll learn to crawl late or she might go straight to walking.

Anyway, so here are her pictures from the last month. Sadly, I still haven’t made too much progress in being able to upload the videos from our digi camcorder.

Diya's 8th Month

pattu pavadai and squeaky shoes

A pattu pavadai with a Cinderella story...I found this amazing. Let me explain. Premal’s family is guju, but I consider them South Indian because they live in Chennai (which is located in southern India) and they are very much into the culture there. So naturally one of the dresses that Neha(Premal’s sister) got for Diya is a very traditional south Indian dress called ‘pattu pavadai’. In this picture Diya is modeling this dress. Basically, it is a very rich colored, two-piece dress that has a contrasting thick border. Looks almost like a choli, but there is no dupata. Now, look closely at the orange border in Diya’s pavadai. Can you read what it says…can you see the ‘ABCs’? Might be hard to see in the picture. I dunno why, but I think this concept is really cool. Apparently, they make ones that instead of the ABCs they have the story of Cinderella printed. Isn’t that amazing? Apparently, this is the hottest new craze going on right now. I can understand why.

Neha also got shoes that squeak(I didn’t take a picture of them). They look like regular sneakers and when we push the soles they squeak. I enjoy them more then Diya does. Sometimes when she’s in the car seat and pushes against the back seat and they squeak. I don’t think she realizes where the sound is coming from, but it gets her attention. When I squeeze them on purpose and she loves it.

Why don’t they make something like that here in the US. Maybe they already do, but I have never seen them. I’ve seen shoes that light up and that is cool too. The squeaking doesn’t require any electrical wiring so you’d think they are safer and more popular plus you’d be able to keep track of where your kids are running off to. I guess the noise could get annoying for some.

There are lot more things that Neha got for Diya that I liked very much like hair pins, bangles, bindis, sandals, regular dresses, soft cotton summer clothes…but the pavadai and the squeaky shoes were my favorite.

Taare Zameen Par

This might be the first entry in a long time that is not baby related…well, mostly. So past weekend not only did we watch a movie, but we watched a Hindi movie. I can’t remember the last time I watched one. In high school I used to watch them all the time. I never had time in college. Premal doesn’t like them so after marriage I rarely got to see any.

Neha(my sister in law) is visiting us from India. She brought some DVDs with her. We watched ‘Taare Zameen Par’. I had heard so many good things about this movie and really wanted to watch it and I’m so glad I did. It is very good...a totally different kind of movie with a very unique story line. It doesn’t have any of the usual, flashy Indian drama. It is about a 9 year old boy. It doesn’t have the usual boy-girl love story either…infact there is no lead actress at all. I won’t give away anything else.

We watched it during the day so we had couple of interruptions cause of Diya. But most of the time she played with her toys and let us watch the movie in peace even though it was a typical 3 hour Hindi movie. Since it all worked out pretty well I would love to watch more. There are few more movies from Neha’s collection that I’d love to watch. Instead of fighting boredom by going out in the freezing cold this was a great alternative(and a money saver).

7 months

Look who’s 7 months old! Couple of major things happened in the last month. I think the best is Diya’s sleeping. I hope I don’t jinx myself here, but she’s been sleeping really well. After she got over most of her sickness I re-did the whole sleep training thing. Luckily second time around wasn’t bad at all. She can now sleep about 7 hrs straight. This brought on another major change…we moved her crib into her room. Until last weekend she was sleeping in our room. I think the move has actually helped her sleep better. Seems like she’s adjusted fine, but me…I walk over to her room 2-3 times a night to make sure she is breathing. We have the monitor on, but I don’t trust it. On top of my paranoia…Diya now flips over in her sleep. So I’m constantly worried about suffocation although the risk reduces at her age. She is a crazy sleeper…this picture was taken last week when she was still in our room…every day she’s in a new position in the morning and so far most shocking was when I found her lying upside down and sideways. Next time I'll be sure to take a photo of it.

Here are her pictures from the last month. Will post more videos once we (have time to) figure out how to upload from our new digi camcorder. The difference is so amazing!

ears pierced

I’ve been wanting to get Diya’s ears pierced for awhile now. But there was always something in the way. First few months I just felt she was too young, then she had her ‘hey I have ears!’ stage where she was constantly pulling on her ears, then I went back to work, then she got sick…so finally on Friday we decided to just go for it. My little trooper did really well. She cried for both ears, but within minutes she was herself again…but much cuter since she had earrings on ;-) She doesn’t really notice them. She hasn’t tried to touch them so I’m guessing they aren’t causing her any pain or itch. What she does hate is when I have to clean(disinfect) the area. I don’t think it hurts her, it probably just feels really cold…whatever it is…she doesn’t like it.
I tried to get some nice pics yesterday evening with her ‘new look’, but she wouldn't stay still at all. You get the gist of it from the ones I posted here.

post 6 months

My original idea(had they won) was to post a picture of Diya wearing a Patriots outfit. Since they lost I’m just gonna stay away from the whole topic.

Lots of stuff going on…I went back to work. I started a new job last Wednesday. Diya started her daycare last Monday. She totally loves it. She loves all the different toys and seeing the others kids walking around. The teachers feed her, change her and put her down for her naps. She does fine in everything. In general she likes daycare. As for me…that is a totally different story. In the beginning I felt like such a bad mother leaving my baby with strangers. First couple of days with put Diya at the daycare as sort of trial days… I got home after leaving her and I seriously couldn’t think straight. I couldn’t focus on anything. All I could think of was Diya and how/what she was doing. I was in tears in no time and told Premal to bring her home soon as possible. I had heard stories, but never thought I would be one of those moms. But since then its gotten much better. My job keeps my thoughts occupied and I’ve gotten used to the whole thing.

Other major thing…Diya is getting her first tooth! At her 6 month appt. doc said she would be getting a tooth in 2 weeks and she was exactly right. She seems to be doing well with the whole teething thing. Only thing is that she has her first cold. Not sure if its cause of the tooth or if I gave it to her since I was the one that was sick originally. Poor thing has a runny nose, stuffy nose and cough. I feel so bad seeing her in this condition. The doctor said there are no meds we can give her. Long as she doesn’t have a fever there isn’t really much to worry about and it the cold take its course.

Before she got sick we got some pictures done(as you can see). Diya did so well this time around. Last time she was only 3 months old and she cried the whole time. We were only able to get one decent pose out of her. This time she was laughing and very cooperative. We wanted only one package, but ended up spending way more than expected. I guess its just the beginning for that. Here are the rest of the proofs if you want to see them.

half birthday!

Yup, Diya is 6 months old. Past month she learned to sit unsupported. I think she really likes sitting. I still keep pillows all around her cause I don't really trust her. If a toy goes out of her reach she leans in the direction of the toy and kinda falls and can't get back to sitting. She gets excited that she was able to get to the toy, but then realizes that she isn't comfortable so she starts crying. Its so funny.

She is also eating many veggies. As you can see it gets messy. Its fun to give her solids, but sometimes I wonder if the smelly diapers are worth it. Her poop smells so bad now. You're thinking well don't smell it, but you can't get away from it. The other day I was standing her in my lap when she started her business. She I let her finish and I could smell it through her 2 layers of clothes, diaper and being a foot away. I told Premal to take a wif and he came close to her bum and started to cough. We both agreed it was the worst smell ever. Good thing is that she leaks less cause the poop is more solid so it kinda just stays in one area of the diaper.

Ok, enough poop talk. So here are the photos from the past month.

Diya's 6th month and random other ones...

I've also posted bunch of videos on google. Here is a link to one and you can get to rest of them where it says "More from user".

Xmas, Anniversary, New Years, Birthday

Our parade of special occasions are now over. Instead of writing a post for each one I've included it all in this big post with respective pictures.

For the Xmas holidays Diya and I stayed at my parents and Premal joined us on his days off. I'm not sure who enjoyed this time more...Premal and I, my parents, my sister or Diya. Premal and I loved getting the extra sleep. My mom loved having Diya all to herself in the mornings while rest of the family slept. Dad loved how easily Diya would smile at him just by hearing his voice. Deesh loved everything about Diya except her dirty diapers.

December 29th was our 5th anniversary. It was nice. We were still at our parents and they took care of Diya while Premal and I enjoyed an quite evening out. It was only the second time(1st being the night before when we went to Premal's work holiday party) that we left Diya. We ended up talking about her the whole time.

New Years we spent with the samaj gang. Diya behaved well and Premal got to play his precious teri(card game) after a long time so it went pretty well.

Jan 4th I turned 29 for the first time(I like how I say that). It was a freezing day and we just spent it indoors and got take out. Next day bunch of the Umass gang came over and it was a lot of fun. Neha and Diya got to known each other and they spoke to each other in baby language. Gautam gave us some really great entertainment and a good glimpse to out our future holds with Diya. Guess the only bad part was the cars slipping on our driveway when people were trying to leave.
Well, the busiest and most fun time of the year is over. I think January and February are the most boring cause we get so lazy about going out due to the cold. Now that Diya is in the picture it'll be worse. It's bad enough having to bundle up ourselves. Bundling her up and taking her diaper bag and stroller is so not worth it sometimes.

She loves me

We setup the highchair. It looks so nice and new now...lets see what it looks like in a couple of months. Until now I used to feed Diya in the bouncer, but she is starting to get too big for it. Today will be the first time I feed her in the highchair...will see how it goes. Here is her highness testing it out.

So, all that one-on-one time I spend with Diya is starting to show. Yesterday, Premal was holding her while I was getting ready for bed and she was fussing and crying. Soon as I took her not only did she stop crying, but she acted like an angel...no fussing...no crying...she just went back to admiring her hands. I couldn't believe I possessed that kind of power. I had to test it out so I gave her back to Premal...sure enough she went back to crying. I took her back and the angel reappeared. I have to say it made me feel kinda nice...she really does love me.

Kishan's photos

These are few of photos that were sent to me recently. For the whole album click here.

He is an exact 50/50 combination of Alpaben and jijaji. He looks just like Kali when she was born...chubby, fair, and lots of hair. Another cutie in the making.

I love the hat they have on him in the last photo. Also, they have nice receiving blankets in the south...care bears and footprints...all we get are pink and blue stripes.

Month 5 coming to a close

Diya is officially 5 months old today. I feel like this last month was a big one for her. She just seems bigger and dare I say little wiser. I've been trying for couple of weeks to teach her "Raadhe, Raadhe, Raadhe...". (Basically, teaching her to clap when she heard that song.) Yesterday she finally did it! I tired to take a video of it. Here is the video but be patient cause she finally claps near the end. Also, here are pictures from the past month.

New arrival...

Welcome little Kishan!

Date: December 19 (Today)

Weight: 7lbs 3oz

Height: 20in

Mummy and baby are doing great.

Congrats to big sister Kali, Alpaben and Jijaji!!

(Will post pics once I get some.)

eating before and after...

Okay, here are the before and after eating photos...they didn't come out as good as I thought...I'll take them again when she starts eating something more colorful.

Solids and sitting

I started Diya on solids(rice cereal) last week. First 3 days were tough. She kept trying to suck on the spoon and didn't understand why I kept taking it away from her. Of course I was refilling the spoon, but she didn't get that concept at all. I started her off with what the box recommended for first feeding portion which is almost nothing to a normal adult. Still it took me forever to feed her all of it. By day 4 we both were getting better at it. I started pushing the spoon in even if her mouth was not open and she started to realize that there can be food in her month without having something on her lips. Its been over a week now and we are both pros. She even opens up her mouth when she sees the spoon approaching. I give her rice twice a day now and it takes less then 5 mins each time. Only thing that sometimes gets in the way are her hands...she has to put them both in her mouth after I put a spoonful in....and that gets messy. I'm gonna need a lot of bibs. I keep forgetting to take a picture of her while feeding her...I'll post it when I do. It's a site to see.

Her bouncy seat is no longer a place I can leave her in even for a minute. The other day I put her in and gave her a toy and went to the bathroom. All of the sudden I hear her coughing. I run out and she is about to fall out cause she is leaning over the side and trying to reach her toy that fell on the floor. I got there just in time.

Looks like she isn't too far from learning to sit. She still needs support, but would rather 'sit' then lay down.

She learns new stuff all the time. We have to turn on the webcam every time we call the in-laws now. Its funny, last time Neha got toys and was waving them for Diya to see. Daddy, mummy were both making silly sounds to get her attention, but she was not having any of it. They really want to see her...wish they were here. Meanwhile the other grandparents are enjoying her. Looks like she really likes her nana the best...although her masi is trying very hard to make her love her more.




Its just amazing how she has to learn the most simplest things in life.