past week

Past Monday Diya graduated from toddlers to preschool 1 at her daycare. Its not real preschool its more like pre-preschool. She goes to a new classroom and gets new teachers. On Wednesday one of her new teachers called saying that Diya was breathing hard. We thought since it is a new teacher maybe she is just not used to Diya and is taking extra precaution. But, we were wrong. That night she had a fever and we noticed a slight cough. So we kept her home rest of the week. Her cough is still bad and her fever has been up and down. She hasn't been eating much, but her energy level is the same. Today she seems a little better, but lets see how it goes. The doctor just said to monitor her. Hopefully she will get over this soon.

While she was home she showed me a new trick of hers...

She can get herself in the high chair, but she still doesn't know how to get down. Another thing she did was lock her self in the bathroom. She went into the bathroom and closed the door and pushed the lock button on the door knob. Then she couldn't get out. It was actually funny. Our bathroom doors can be unlocked from the outside so I wasn't too worried. So I let her panic for a minute then opened the door hoping to scare her so she wouldn't do it again.

The worst thing she did was break our digital camera. It was charging and she got hold of the wire and it fell to the floor. Now it doesn't turn on. Great!

Meanwhile, Ami continues to give us big smiles and loves being entertained by her big sister. Both the girls keep disturbing each others sleep. Diya especially doesn't let Ami get her naps during the day. Ami continues to love the swing and sleeps long stretches in it. Not sure how to get her to sleep in her crib like that.

Happy Father's Day

Hope all the fathers around the world had a wonderful day yesterday. We celebrated the day at my parents place in Burlington. We had a great time. Since the weather was lousy we didn't go out, but relaxed and just enjoyed being inside. Diya was entertaining us with her antics. It was really funny. Even Ami did well. It was the first trip to her nana and nani's house and she loved it. She is such a smiler now. My dad was talking to her and she had smiles all over the place. I would say the girls behavior was the biggest gift for their daddy which he appreciated.

After dinner we headed back home and we realised it was the first time that just the four of us were in the car together. Until now there was always some reason or other that we were split up. Ami slept the whole way home. Diya wasn't too bad either and fell asleep about half way.

Ami and Diya with their daddy
Disha and I with our dad who was styling with his new sunglasses and watch

Ami visits the mandir

Past weekend we took Ami to her first visit to the mandir (temple). Traditionally, it is believed that the first time a newborn ventures out of the house should be to go to the mandir when they are about 5 weeks old. Well, we couldn't follow this exactly since the first trip out of the house for Ami was before 5 weeks and it was to the pediatrician's office, but we tried our best. Same was the case when we took Diya for her first trip to the mandir.

We went on Saturday with my parents and sister. It didn't go too well for Ami. She was sleepy and therefore not too happy to be there. Diya on the other hand didn't mind it too much since she could run around in the open space. Since the trip gave me such a dejavu feeling from when we took Diya I had to compare the photos from both times.

our visit with Ami

our visit with Diya

home with both the girls

On Wednesday, Diya was sent home from daycare because her left eye was red and her daycare teachers were afraid it was conjunctivitis since it was going around. Then on Thursday Diya's right eye was red so we decided to keep her home again that day. So both those days, for the first time I was handling them by myself. It was absolutely crazy! I spend most of the day saying "no Diya!" At times I felt bad because I know how jealous she feels when I'm handling Ami, but at times it was really frustrating. Plus, she always wanted to hold Ami, or touch her or kiss her or hug her....all things I didn't want her doing since she had conjunctivitis which is very contagious. Some how I made it through and even took a photo to remember the days.

Today, Ami had her 1 month checkup. I'm very happy to say it went really well. Ami gained 6 ounces since getting back from the hospital. Her pediatrician and I were very pleased with that. Her next appointment will be her 2 month checkup where she will get her first set of shots.

Ami is starting to do more than just eat, sleep and poop. She now follows you with her eyes, she smiles, and she coos. She really likes watching Diya too. She's been sleeping pretty decent. At night she will sleep 3 to 4 hrs at a stretch. Hopefully, that will get longer. Over all she is a good baby.

all better

Ami is doing fine now. Besides the bandages you'd never know she had surgery done. She is no longer vomiting is totally back to normal. The feeding and the pooping is going good. This Friday she has her 1 month check up. Can't believe she is already a month old. It flew by extra fast because of all the chaos. I hope nothing else is waiting for us and we can enjoy the coming months in peace.

These are photos from the last week of May. We haven't taken any new photos in June, but I'm sure we will.

Ami's week 3

Pyloric Stenosis

This is gonna sound like something from an episode of ER, but believe me it really happened.

Our feeding situation with Ami got even worse after the last post. She started to vomit everything after every single feeding. She did it Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Plus, she hadn't pooped since Thursday. On Monday I took her to the pediatrician. She said that Ami might have something called Pyloric Stenosis. Which is when the muscle after the stomach is so big that it blocks food from being passed along to the small intestine. So the only way the food has to go is back up and out of the mouth. It also explains the no pooping.

Pediatrician said it was pretty serious and that she needed to be taken to the emergency room right away and if she does have this then surgery will be required. So we rushed Ami to Children's Hospital in Boston right away. They did an ultrasound and confirmed that she indeed had pyloric stenosis and would need surgery to fix it. The next day they performed the surgery and Ami did really well. After that she had to be monitored until she was able to hold down at least 2 feeding.

On Wednesday night we were finally discharged. Ami still had couple of episodes of vomiting that night, but they assured us it was part of the recovery process and it gets better within few days.

It has been over 24 hours now that Ami has not vomited and she's pooped about 4 times so we are keeping our fingers crossed. Big thanks to everyone who helped us. Thanks for taking care of Diya, bringing us food, and just being there.

I can't even put into words the emotional roller coaster we have been on since Monday. Things are finally starting to calm down. Everyone at the hospital told us that Ami will forget everything in a day, but we will remember it for the rest of our lives. I have a feeling they are gonna be absolutely right.

Ami's photos from week 2

I know I am a week late with these photos.

Ami's week 2

Three weeks after Ami's arrival and things are going OK. The biggest issue currently is Ami's feeding. I know, in the last post I mentioned it was going great. Well, that took a turn for the worse and Ami started losing weight. I was having some issues so we tried to give some formula, but she doesn't like that one bit. She spits it up every time and its just a mess. I'm doing better now have gone back to the nursing routine we had before. Just hoping Ami is satisfied and started gaining weight or at least doesn't lose anymore.

Diya's jealousy has not gotten any better. She acts up everytime she sees one of us(especially Premal) holding Ami. She even says 'no baby' when she gets angry. We knew this was gonna happen. I guess we just have to deal with it and hope over time it will get better.

Ami doesn't have a set sleeping schedule yet. Yesterday she surprised us and slept for amost 6 hours straight. It sounds nice, but she missed a feeding which stresses me out.

Last week was the first week where Ami and I were alone and we didn't have any help. It went really well compared to when Diya and I used to be alone. Besides taking care of Ami I was actually able to shower, make dinner, and even take a nap before Premal and Diya got home.

Best part of the week was doing a load of laundry that contained my maternity clothes. It felt so nice knowing that I will never be wearing them ever, ever again!!!

photos and more

Hi Everyone. Things at the Shah house hold are busy these days. Ami is over 1 week old already. She is doing good. She sleeps a lot during the day, but from midnight to about 3am she likes to stay awake. Hopefully that will change soon. She feeds great...actually its a little too well. It seems like she is constantly hungry and ready for food at anytime. (Just like her big sister.)

Ami had lost 4 oz when we left the hospital. It is very normal for babies to lose weight after they are born. On Wednesday she had her first visit to the doctors. She had gained 1.5 oz by then. So it looks like she will be back to her birth weight in no time. What a difference Ami's first appointment was from Diya's first appointment. With Diya we had a million questions for the doc and we were full of stress. This time around we barely had any questions and are much more relaxed.

We have a lot of people helping out. Thanks to everyone.

Here are some photos below. We had the '6th day' ceremony. Those photos are below too.

May 2009, Ami Arrives!

Ami 's Shaathi

She's here!!

Baby has arrived!

Date: May 8th

Time: 5:30 pm

Weight: 8lb 15oz

Diya getting to know her sister

It was a Friday I will remember forever. I woke up at 6 am feeling contractions, but at that time I wasn't really sure what was going on. By 2pm we were at the hospital and by 5:30pm we were parents to 2 kids. Everything happened so fast this time around.

We are most likely going to name her Ami Shah. We expected a heavier baby then Diya, but didn't think she would be almost 9lbs!! It was a normal delivery too. We are all doing fine and will be going home tomorrow.

back home safe and sound

After almost a 2 hr delay Premal and Diya arrived safe and sound back to the US. My biggest gift was when Diya called me 'mummy' and reassured me that she didn't forget me. I know lot of people didn't know that Diya was going with Premal to India. I didn't mention it anywhere because it was a surprise for my in-laws. It was well worth it too. They were so surprised and made the whole idea totally worth it.

Diya loved India. I knew she would. She loved no seatbelts in the car, open air, balconies, no high chair, constant food, the weather, the kids next door and being totally spoiled. She or Premal didn't get sick at all. I was very concerned about that.

She hasn't been gone long, but I feel like she looks different and acts little different too. I think she may have lost a few pounds due to heat mostly. She seems as active as ever. She has gotten pretty good at drinking out of a cup. She's learned a lot of new words including some in Tamil that mummy taught her. I can tell she is missing everyone from there. When she sees photos of daddy or mummy she waves and says 'hi dada or hi dadi'. Its really cute.

The wedding seems to have gone over well. I can't believe its over and I missed it. I can't believe Neha is now a married woman. I see the photos and really feel sad that I couldn't go and be part of this important occasion. But, I'm glad at least Premal and Diya got to go.

Below are general photos of the India trip and the professional photos of the reception. The reception was given from the Shah family. Enjoy!

April 2009 India Trip

Neha Reception

April photos

Premal and Diya will be returning this Saturday...I can't wait! I miss them so much. I feel like I haven't seen them for months. Diya must have grown so much. I will have more details from their trip later. For now here are the photos from last month.

April 2009

big news!

Congrats Neha!

The Shah Family has big news...Neha is getting married!!!

The wedding will be on April 27th in Chennai. Yup, that's next week!! Unfortunately, the next auspicious date isn't 'till March of next year which is just too long of a wait. So bad news is that I won't be able to attend. For years I've known this day would one day come and I've been secretly looking forward to it. My bad luck that I can't go. I know everyone is feeling bad that I won't be there, but on the bright side at least Premal will be there. He is going for little over a week. He is excited to be going and at the same time he is worried that #2 will make her appearance before he gets back. I'll be 37 weeks on the day of the wedding. It's cutting it close...I'm keeping my fingers crossed, but I think it will work out just fine.

I hope everything goes fine with the wedding and wish Neha a very happy wedding and a great married life. I know her fiance loves her very much and will take good care of her.

innocent face

She could fool anyone with this innocent face.

I put this dress on Diya on Easter Sunday and she kept rubbing her arms against her body. At first I didn't get why she was doing this, but soon realized that this was the first time in months she had worn anything short-sleeved. Need less to say she quickly got used to it. Can't wait for summer!

Here are some videos that were taken few weeks back. First one is of her feeding herself. She has mastered how to hold a spoon and can coordinate it to her mouth. Now, if she could only understand that she doesn't have to fill it to the max and shoves it all in her mouth. She will not let us feed her at all anymore...at all. Even something like a sandwich...she has to hold it in her hand, but she doesn't realize that she can take small bites. She always take huge bites and on many occasions she has gagged and scared us. Don't know how to make her realize that she doesn't have to fill her mouth everytime.

This second one is of her singing ABCs and Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star. She has actually gotten better since this video was taken. I'm not sure exactly how she learned this. I like to think I had a hand in it because I sing to her all the time, but I'm sure daycare is probably the main reason. She also knows her 1, 2, 3's a bit, but will wait taking a video of that when she's a little better.

Diya's new videos

If you didn't already know Diya loves dogs especially Cody(our neighbor's dog).




Here is a glimpse of what she's like on a normal day at home.

new stuff around the house

Some new stuff in our house. First, its Diya's new bedding! Ended up going with Tinker-Bell. The comforter is so big for Diya. Plus the bed rail doesn't help. It was like a sea of blanket which Diya gets lost in. I've been folding it in half and covering her.

Second, is our newly designed living room. Well, just a new TV with a new setup. We just did this past Saturday. I have to say it looks better then I expected. We moved all the toys in the other room which we now call the 'toy room'.

You look tired....you think?!?!

Get ready cause in this post I am venting my anger. Feel free to stop reading.

If one more person tells me that I look tired I may just explode. Its like telling the sun 'you look yellow'...duh! Give me a break people...I mean lets look at the facts. I'm 8 months pregnant...I'm not getting good sleep...I'm carrying around an extra 25 lbs...I can barely reach my toes...my back is constantly killing me...and I have a very active toddler. So yeh, I am a little tired and when someone tells me that I look tired its not helping. I feel like crap...I don't need to be reminded that I look like crap too. It would be understandable if someone who doesn't have kids or if a guy says this. But, no. Women who have gone through pregnancy are saying this to me. You'd think they would have something nicer to say. Well, I have news for you people. Get used to it cause if you think I look tired now...wait 'till the baby arrives! So the next time you see me, if you could refrain from saying 'you look tired', it would be greatly appreciated.

Phew...ok...I feel better now. I'm done.

not the average fever

What a week! Last weekend Diya started getting sick and we thought 'oh great here we go again'. On Monday we thought she was on the road to recovery...boy, were we wrong. It turned out to be the worst sickness she's ever had. Tuesday morning daycare called saying she had a fever. She ended up having it for almost 4 days after that. She didn't touch her toys. She wanted to sleep or be held all the time. She was very cranky. It was a totally different Diya. She stayed home from daycare for 4 days. I took one day off and Premal took a couple and my mom helped us out on Friday.

Doc said she had a virus and we just had to wait for it to take its course. We could only give her meds(tylenol and Ibuprofin) to help with fever and aches and pain. She also ended up having a slight ear infection. We were very surprised at this since that was the point of getting tubes! Doc said it was unfortunate and explained that some dirt may have gotten in and partially blocked the tubes. That was just great news for us. Anyway, past weekend she was pretty much back to her normal active self.

We are definitely seeing more obvious signs of the terrible-two's. She screams so loudly when she doesn't get her way. If we yell at her she will run off crying and go to another room. She is showing signs of mini tantrums. If we take something out of her hands she cries, falls to the ground and kind of bangs it. This will be lots of fun to deal with when #2 arrives ;-)

On a more positive note, I am 2 months away from my due date. Premal brought down Diya's newborn clothes from the attic and I totally enjoyed going through them. I can't wait for him to set up the new dresser so I can start organizing it. We will need to make one more trip to the attic for the bouncer, Diya's old milk bottes, and some other random things. I'm starting to get really excited about #2! Seeing a couple of babies past weekend has gotten me even more excited. I'm also really hoping she will be early.

I'm also excited that Neha will be coming here to help us out. Her tickets aren't final yet, but she's coming begining of May and staying about a month. She is amazing with kids and I totally trust her with mine.

That's it for now.

trip to NC

We made it back in one piece from out NC trip. We all had a really, really great time. I got to relax and eat while Premal got to sleep. Diya...she loved having someone ready to play with her at any time of the day. The weather was so nice there she even got to play outside a couple of time. And of course she got to eat tons of goodies.

Diya's first flight experience was pretty much what we expected. Kinda crazy. We made one big mistake...we didn't bring a stroller with us. We were on the fence about bringing it. We finally decided not to take it thinking it would get in the way and it would mean one extra thing we would have to carry. But in the airports Diya was running around a mile-a-minute and taking full advantage of all the open space. It was difficult to catch her. Thank God Deesh and Vipul were with us. They helped out a lot. But we realized a stroller would have helped. In the plane she slept most of the time both ways. We had her video to keep her occupied when she was awake. It wasn't a long flight so that part wasn't too bad. Hopefully, when we finally make that trip to India Diya will be a bit more managable...she will be close to 2.5 yrs by then. No definite plans on the trip yet, but most likely will be late this year...like Nov or Dec.

Here are pictures from our NC trip. Their aren't too many pics.

Trip to NC

Here are Diya's pictures from the last month.

Diya in Feb 2009

my 19 month old

Diya turns 19 months old today. At what point do people stop counting months anyway? When someone asks how old is Diya, should I start referring in years now? Till now, I've noticed that my answer is usually based on who is asking. Someone whos had kids fairly recently totally get the month-lingo. Others, look little confused and as soon as I clarify with the years equivalent I can tell that made more sense to them.

Anyway, lots of things going on with Diya these days. The biggest thing is her speech probably. She says lot more words that make sense. She's gotten better at copying what we say. Even when we don't ask her she will copy us. The other day Premal said 'thanks Sweety' to me and Diya immediately copied and said 'swee-ee'. She wasn't even looking at us...she was doing her own thing and out of no where she said it. It was cute. She also says 'honey' really cute.

It has been 2 weeks since Diya has been sleeping in her big-girl bed! The change went over much better than I expected. First few days we didn't have a bed rail. So I kept couple of foam mattresses next to the bed incase she fell off. Frist day, not only did she fall of the bed, but she rolled off the foam mattresses and was pretty much on the carpet...and she was still sleeping! The bed rails have really helped. I don't think she will miss her crib anymore. Now, I'm in search for some cute girl bedding. 'Till now we've been using the baby blankets on her, but I think she's ready for big-girl blanket.

We are really looking forward to next week. We are taking a vacation to visit masi's family in NC. Masi and Om visited when Diya was born and Roshani and masa have never seen Diya. Plus, it will be the first time we see Rosh as a married woman. Can't wait to see her photos and hear all the wedding stories. It will also be the first time Diya goes on the plane. We got a direct flight and its only for few hours so hopefully it won't be too bad. This is kind of our test-run for when we make our longer journey to India which may be happening later this year.

Last, I leave you with a photo of me and my belly. Many have been asking me to see a photo of my growing belly. I feel so bad when I say that honestly this is the only photo I've taken this pregnancy that shows my belly...#2 is gonna hate me, isn't she?

fun with editing

Since its way too cold to go outside I've been teaching myself Microsoft Movie Maker during my past couple of lunch breaks. I've been meaning to learn how to do some video editing for awhile now. Finally, I jumped into it and its actually pretty easy. So, below are my first 2 projects.

I had a bunch of random videos of Diya that I wanted to post. I've also been loving the 'My Desi Girl' song from Dostana...so here is what I did.







Premal was singing the Right Here, Right Now song by Fatboy Slim few days back and Diya started copying him. So of course I had to capture it on video.